It's Sunday, June 23, 2013.
I was talking with Zachary, my
grandson, this morning. I realized as we were talking that he was
looking forward to the most of his life, and I was looking back on
most of mine. We each had our own perspective of what was important,
but it differed depending on the viewpoint. I've tried to counsel
him about what was important, the things that I have learned in life
that might affect him. He couldn't see the problems facing him as
well as I could and will probably have to learn by trial and error
like I did. I was hoping that I could share some of the things I had
learned and help him to avoid some of the mistakes that I had made
during my lifetime. But it seems that each of us can only learn from
our own mistakes and can't effectively utilize knowledge impressed
upon us by others. I will keep trying to convey solutions that I
have discovered, and perhaps by repetition, and some of that
knowledge will eke its way into his brain. I know the world is
different now than it was when I was young and perhaps some of the
things I learned won't be applicable in today's world, but I'm sure
that some of those things I've learned can be used. Today's world is
so instantly communicable and news is so up to the minute that
everyone feels in direct contact with what's going on the world. In
my youth. We learned so much of the news long after it had happened
and felt a bit distant from the rest of the world. Our world was
more local and the things that concerned us were within reach. Male
took days to reach us and telephones were fixed to the household and
we couldn't be reached when we were away from home. We had to be
prepared to deal with any emergency without someone else's help. Now
with the advent of cellular telephones, help is just a a few buttons
away and no one feels completely isolated. In my day, and you had to
carry maps to determine where you were in the world. Now most phones
have GPS and you can determine where you are with the click. So now
folks are more connected, but at the same time are more dependent on
each other. We gave up some degree of our independence for the
luxury of communication. My grandson's world's is quite different
from mine when I was his age. There are advantages and
disadvantages, but I hope he will develop some of the independent
character that was so important in my day. The more dependent you
become on society, the less able you are to deal with emergencies.
And part of the planning for the future is to allow for emergencies
that will develop. If our country ever has a cyber attack, and we
somehow lose our generating power, we will need to be more
independent, each one of us. So I try to prepare for an emergency
hoping that it never occurs and try to convey my grandson, what
knowledge he may need.